A "survival guide" for college students new to American culture

At your new college or university you'll meet new people with values and ideals that differ from your own. This survival guide is designed to prepare you for some of the laws that will affect you and to introduce you to some uniquely American customs.

Names
In many countries, when people give their name, they refer to themselves using their last name or family name. In the United States, however, people generally refer to themselves using their first name; some people even take on "nicknames," which can be related to their first name or some event in their life. On the first day of class, professors will introduce themselves and will tell you how they'd like to be addressed.

Individuality
Americans pride themselves on their individuality and independence. They express their individuality in many ways, including clothing and decorating styles. American college students are learning to live as independent adults, and they will make decisions about their living style, classes, and personal life independent of their parents and family.

Directness
Americans will speak bluntly, discussing topics in public that people from other cultures may find embarrassing or controversial. College campuses are a place where many ideas are discussed freely, and you may hear things that make you uncomfortable or offend you. It is important to know you can tell someone you do not wish to discuss a subject that makes you uncomfortable.

Greetings
People may ask "how are you doing?" or "how are you?" as a greeting. If someone you are not well acquainted with asks you one of these questions, they are probably not expecting an in-depth or personal response. Most people will respond to these questions with "Fine, thanks. How are you?" or a similar statement.

Relationships
Men and women in the United States often form friendships that have no romantic involvement. These friends will spend time together, go to the movies, and go out to dinner alone or in groups. If an American of the opposite sex invites you to a party or to dinner, it does not necessarily indicate romantic interest.

Culture shock
It is common for people living far away from home to experience culture shock, but this doesn't have to spoil the experience. If you find yourself feeling homesick, call a friend at home or go to your school's international student office to speak with an advisor. Culture shock is a normal part of living in a new environment, so do not be alarmed.

Article by Masume Assafis assistant director and foreign student advisor for the Office of International Students and Scholars at The Pennsylvania State University

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