10 biggest PUBLIC SPEAKING mistakes!!!
22/10/2012
How come intelligent, business-savvy people end up boring their
audiences? They fail to recognize that public speaking is an acquired skill
that improves with practice and honest feedback. Speaking for 20 minutes before
the right group of people can do more for your career than spending a year
behind a desk!
Rob Sherman, an attorney and public speaker in Columbus, Ohio, says in an
article in the Toastmaster magazine to avoid these mistakes:
- Starting
with a whimper. Don’t start with “Thank you for that
kind introduction.” Start with a bang! Give the audience a startling
statistic, an interesting quote, a news headline – something powerful that
will get their attention immediately.
- Attempting
to imitate other speakers. Authenticity is lost
when you aren’t yourself.
- Failing
to “work” the room. Your audience wants to meet you. If
you don’t take time to mingle before the presentation, you lose an
opportunity to enhance your credibility with your listeners.
- Failing
to use relaxation techniques. Do whatever it takes
– listening to music, breathing deeply, shrugging your shoulders – to
relieve nervous tension.
- Reading
a speech word for word. This will put the audience to sleep.
Instead use a “keyword” outline: Look at the keyword to prompt your
thoughts. Look into the eyes of the audience, then speak.
- Using
someone else’s stories. It’s okay to use brief quotes from
other sources, but to connect with the audience, you must illustrate your
most profound thoughts from your own life experiences. If you think you
don’t have any interesting stories to tell, you are not looking hard
enough.
- Speaking
without passion. The more passionate you are about your
topic, the more likely your audience will act on your suggestions.
- Ending
a speech with questions and answers. Instead, tell the
audience that you will take questions and then say, “We will move to our
closing point.” After the Q and A, tell a story that ties in with your
main theme, or summarize your key points. Conclude with a quote or call to
action.
- Failing
to prepare. Your reputation is at stake every time you
face an audience – so rehearse well enough to ensure you’ll leave a good
impression!
- Failing
to recognize that speaking is an acquired skill.
Effective executives learn how to present in the same way they learn to
use other tools to operate their businesses.
Toastmasters International. (n.d.). 10
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